Friday, January 18, 2013

Real Facts!!!

(1). Some people say that they are so attached to there values.....(Do they really mean to say that !!! and in what way). Values are ethical relations created by man for his living in this society. There is nothing in this world that a man is bound to...... but, he makes it look as if he is ought to bound by imposing restrictions and boundaries. These restrictions which he has imposed does help a man a lot if he follows them in right sense, else it could cause a serious damage to him and his mental growth.


(2). Some people say that they fear about somethings in life. I'll talk about this through an example:

Example: Men and Women in India mostly fear about second marriages..... especially the one's who have there first one's alive. This is an unlawful act in the lights of law in India and is seriously offensive when the former does not concern the later regarding his interest of getting married to some-other. This, so called unlawful act is lawful and legal in countries like Sweden, Finland etc. People in those countries are free to marry any one any time without seeking any sort of opinion or willingness of his or her so called life mate. Does this mean that the people of those countries are not accorded properly??? --> The answer to this question is surely NO.... A rule made in a country might differ with the rule of another, this does not mean that the things followed by them are wrong. Never the less, rules are boundaries created by people to restrict themselves and there future generations from diverting into an unhealthy track. Never feel it as a restriction imposed on you. Feel it as your duty to follow them when you are a citizen of the country that imposed the protocols(so called rules).


(3). Is high level of imagination, an healthy symptom for the mental stability of a human being???

We know that every issue in this world have there own good and bad impact. Imagination is surely a gift for the human world. But is also a serious problem to the growth of the mental stability of people when it takes a wrong track. Some people with high imagination power create imaginary things that creates a stunt to there mental growth which may end them up in a false assumption. Any thing which is crisp and limited is good for mental stability. If the limitations are broken, then the stability is also effected.



(4). How to attain concentration???

Most of us might be having a problem in attaining concentration at regular intervals of time. The main and basic reason of this is due to the high cache power of the eye. From my perspective and study i found that the blind are sharp and focused, this gives us a hint that the eyes and their swift movement play a key role in concentration diversion. Concentration can be made stable by keeping a cool and focused mind. This could be possible just by practicing. Meditation in the early day could help. Due to this act, the focus is paid to silence and not on to the things which we see. Concentration could also be improved by keeping and controlling mind to think nothing but simple to fill the mind with just vacuum when ever possible. 




(5). Is money the actual source of living???

The current world is running after fame and money. These are the actual sources of living according to many in this world. But, there is something more important in this world than these, could you just have a guess???
Its the relations.... People go mad after money by doing several things ( legal or illegal ). Most of them give importance in earning money just to gain  respect in there society and among there relatives. So, from this we can conclude that people give weight to earning to win the respect from there deer one ( relatives). So, its made that relations are much more of importance than anything in this universe. Every thing that we do in this world is connected either directly or indirectly to win the respect of people and society.

"A person who respects relations and has a fear towards it, surely will succeed in every deed he takes up".


(6). What is the time in man's life, to achieve great heights???

People sometimes fall into false assumption that, it is the student life where a person can achieve anything of his desire.But as far as i'm concerned there's nothing like a specified period where, a man can achieve lords. Basically it's the time when man comes to know about the facts about his or her standards and comes to know where he or she really stand in this competitive world. When this happens there's nothing that can stop a man from achieving. But i also agree with the words told by our intellectuals around the world, that it's the student life which can make people to achieve lords. The reasons for them to tell like this as far as i'm concerned is that, it's the student life where a man can find time to think creatively because during this age he is not under any force of pressure from his family or from his peer groups in the society.But, pressure is never an huddle to creativity and aims. Life is a struggle, anything that comes on way, man should be able to handle it with smile and confidence. So, there's nothing which can create a stunt to the growth of a person achieving big.

"Time is so precious, once you understand that, there's nothing which can stop you from achieving big".


(7). Today my friends and I had a talk about the Delhi rape which occurred recently( last month ). The discussion lasted for a long time. There was an argue between two of my friends about whose mistake was it actually. One says it's because the men were drunk, another says it's because of the dressing of girls......

But if I were asked about this issue. I would say it's the mistake of the system that we are presently running in. It's not because of the dressing of the girl (or) because the men were drunk. In Arab countries women wear burqa which makes them appear dress completely. In spite of this we find the same issue of rape there, why is it so??? Our ancient India was free from such unlawful problems because, those days people strictly respected our customs and traditions. Women were given respect. Many people from around the world spoke great about our country and our traditions. If we dig deep into the history we find how wealthy our heritage was and how great were the protocols that we followed. But now, it's a shame for us to know that our country stands second in the deadly disease AIDS. In our country when we see a boy and a girl moving together on a road 99% of people start gossiping and spread rumors about them in a negative way thinking that they are lovers. I just don't understand how can people be so narrow minding and judge-mental. SEX is the most divine thing that each of us must respect. We should never forget that it is the cause for our origin. I'm not against the people who drink, but I feel that all the stress and strain that the person undergoes breaks our when he drinks.If a person has unfulfilled desires that he had suppressed under the stress line till date and if he drinks. It's sure that the person will break down from his stress and try to get relieved from his desires by carrying out such unlawful work.

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